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  <updated>2026-06-05T00:00:00.000Z</updated>
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  <title>The Effective Engineer</title>
  <subtitle>Time is your most limited and critical resource. Learn powerful mindsets, strategies, and tools on how to spend it on what matters most.</subtitle>
  <author>
    <name>Edmond Lau</name>
  </author>
    <entry>
      <title>Relationships Are Systems — What Engineering Taught Me About Partnership</title>
      <link href="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/engineering-and-partnership" rel="alternate" type="text/html" title="Relationships Are Systems — What Engineering Taught Me About Partnership" />
      <published>2026-06-05T00:00:00.000Z</published>
      <updated>2026-06-05T00:00:00.000Z</updated>
      <id>http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/engineering-and-partnership</id>
      <content type="html" xml:base="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/engineering-and-partnership">&lt;p&gt;Feedback loops, leverage, iteration — the principles that made me a better engineer turned out to be the same ones that made me a better partner, father, and human.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/engineering-and-partnership&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;Relationships Are Systems — What Engineering Taught Me About Partnership &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
      <author>
        <name>Edmond Lau</name>
      </author>
      <category term="personal growth" />
      <summary type="html">&lt;p&gt;Feedback loops, leverage, iteration — the principles that made me a better engineer turned out to be the same ones that made me a better partner, father, and human.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/engineering-and-partnership&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;Relationships Are Systems — What Engineering Taught Me About Partnership &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</summary>
    </entry>
    <entry>
      <title>How to Stay Happy, Healthy, and Productive During a Pandemic</title>
      <link href="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/stay-happy-healthy-productive-during-pandemic" rel="alternate" type="text/html" title="How to Stay Happy, Healthy, and Productive During a Pandemic" />
      <published>2020-03-24T00:00:00.000Z</published>
      <updated>2020-03-24T00:00:00.000Z</updated>
      <id>http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/stay-happy-healthy-productive-during-pandemic</id>
      <content type="html" xml:base="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/stay-happy-healthy-productive-during-pandemic">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/stay-happy-healthy-productive-during-pandemic&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/floating-leaf.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;I felt the tension bottled up in my chest, my entire body holding tight. I was eager to be done and to leave Whole Foods, but I kept telling myself that I just needed to power through to get the groceries I needed for the week. I could feel in my body the collective tension in the air.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/stay-happy-healthy-productive-during-pandemic&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;How to Stay Happy, Healthy, and Productive During a Pandemic &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
      <author>
        <name>Edmond Lau</name>
      </author>
      <category term="growth" />
      <category term="leadership" />
      <summary type="html">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/stay-happy-healthy-productive-during-pandemic&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/floating-leaf.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;I felt the tension bottled up in my chest, my entire body holding tight. I was eager to be done and to leave Whole Foods, but I kept telling myself that I just needed to power through to get the groceries I needed for the week. I could feel in my body the collective tension in the air.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/stay-happy-healthy-productive-during-pandemic&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;How to Stay Happy, Healthy, and Productive During a Pandemic &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</summary>
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    </entry>
    <entry>
      <title>Help Me Celebrate My Five-Year Anniversary</title>
      <link href="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/help-me-celebrate-my-five-year-anniversary" rel="alternate" type="text/html" title="Help Me Celebrate My Five-Year Anniversary" />
      <published>2020-03-19T00:00:00.000Z</published>
      <updated>2020-03-19T00:00:00.000Z</updated>
      <id>http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/help-me-celebrate-my-five-year-anniversary</id>
      <content type="html" xml:base="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/help-me-celebrate-my-five-year-anniversary">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/help-me-celebrate-my-five-year-anniversary&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/fireworks.jpeg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;“I love your book!” the stranger shouted as he ran past me with his dog.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/help-me-celebrate-my-five-year-anniversary&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;Help Me Celebrate My Five-Year Anniversary &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
      <author>
        <name>Edmond Lau</name>
      </author>
      <category term="growth" />
      <category term="leadership" />
      <summary type="html">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/help-me-celebrate-my-five-year-anniversary&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/fireworks.jpeg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;“I love your book!” the stranger shouted as he ran past me with his dog.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/help-me-celebrate-my-five-year-anniversary&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;Help Me Celebrate My Five-Year Anniversary &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</summary>
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    </entry>
    <entry>
      <title>What Does It Mean to Be an Effective Tech Lead?</title>
      <link href="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/what-does-it-mean-to-be-an-effective-tech-lead" rel="alternate" type="text/html" title="What Does It Mean to Be an Effective Tech Lead?" />
      <published>2018-03-09T00:00:00.000Z</published>
      <updated>2018-03-09T00:00:00.000Z</updated>
      <id>http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/what-does-it-mean-to-be-an-effective-tech-lead</id>
      <content type="html" xml:base="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/what-does-it-mean-to-be-an-effective-tech-lead">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/what-does-it-mean-to-be-an-effective-tech-lead&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/compass.jpeg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;The first time I took on a tech lead role early in my career, I had little clue what I was doing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/what-does-it-mean-to-be-an-effective-tech-lead&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;What Does It Mean to Be an Effective Tech Lead? &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
      <author>
        <name>Edmond Lau</name>
      </author>
      <category term="growth" />
      <category term="leadership" />
      <category term="tech lead" />
      <summary type="html">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/what-does-it-mean-to-be-an-effective-tech-lead&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/compass.jpeg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;The first time I took on a tech lead role early in my career, I had little clue what I was doing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/what-does-it-mean-to-be-an-effective-tech-lead&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;What Does It Mean to Be an Effective Tech Lead? &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</summary>
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    </entry>
    <entry>
      <title>My New Adventure: Leadership Development for People in Tech</title>
      <link href="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/my-call-to-new-adventure" rel="alternate" type="text/html" title="My New Adventure: Leadership Development for People in Tech" />
      <published>2018-01-30T00:00:00.000Z</published>
      <updated>2018-01-30T00:00:00.000Z</updated>
      <id>http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/my-call-to-new-adventure</id>
      <content type="html" xml:base="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/my-call-to-new-adventure">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/my-call-to-new-adventure&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/adventure.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Last week, I shared with you my personal, farewell letter to Quip.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/my-call-to-new-adventure&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;My New Adventure: Leadership Development for People in Tech &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
      <author>
        <name>Edmond Lau</name>
      </author>
      <category term="growth" />
      <category term="leadership" />
      <summary type="html">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/my-call-to-new-adventure&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/adventure.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Last week, I shared with you my personal, farewell letter to Quip.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/my-call-to-new-adventure&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;My New Adventure: Leadership Development for People in Tech &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</summary>
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    </entry>
    <entry>
      <title>My Farewell Letter on What Working at Quip Meant to Me</title>
      <link href="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/farewell-letter-to-quip" rel="alternate" type="text/html" title="My Farewell Letter on What Working at Quip Meant to Me" />
      <published>2018-01-17T00:00:00.000Z</published>
      <updated>2018-01-17T00:00:00.000Z</updated>
      <id>http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/farewell-letter-to-quip</id>
      <content type="html" xml:base="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/farewell-letter-to-quip">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/farewell-letter-to-quip&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/letter.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Last Friday was my last day working at Quip.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/farewell-letter-to-quip&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;My Farewell Letter on What Working at Quip Meant to Me &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
      <author>
        <name>Edmond Lau</name>
      </author>
      <category term="growth" />
      <category term="leadership" />
      <summary type="html">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/farewell-letter-to-quip&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/letter.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Last Friday was my last day working at Quip.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/farewell-letter-to-quip&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;My Farewell Letter on What Working at Quip Meant to Me &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</summary>
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    </entry>
    <entry>
      <title>The Most Intense Year of Growth in My Life — What I’ve Learned</title>
      <link href="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/the-most-intense-year-of-growth" rel="alternate" type="text/html" title="The Most Intense Year of Growth in My Life — What I&apos;ve Learned" />
      <published>2018-01-03T00:00:00.000Z</published>
      <updated>2018-01-03T00:00:00.000Z</updated>
      <id>http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/the-most-intense-year-of-growth</id>
      <content type="html" xml:base="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/the-most-intense-year-of-growth">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/the-most-intense-year-of-growth&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/skydiving.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;“I am jumping into new possibilities!” With those words, I threw myself out of the plane and hurtled 14,000 feet toward the ground — screaming for my life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/the-most-intense-year-of-growth&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;The Most Intense Year of Growth in My Life — What I’ve Learned &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
      <author>
        <name>Edmond Lau</name>
      </author>
      <category term="growth" />
      <category term="leadership" />
      <summary type="html">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/the-most-intense-year-of-growth&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/skydiving.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;“I am jumping into new possibilities!” With those words, I threw myself out of the plane and hurtled 14,000 feet toward the ground — screaming for my life.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/the-most-intense-year-of-growth&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;The Most Intense Year of Growth in My Life — What I’ve Learned &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</summary>
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    </entry>
    <entry>
      <title>My Keynote Talk: What It Really Means to Be an Effective Engineer</title>
      <link href="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/startcon-keynote-what-effective-engineer-really-means" rel="alternate" type="text/html" title="My Keynote Talk: What It Really Means to Be an Effective Engineer" />
      <published>2017-12-28T00:00:00.000Z</published>
      <updated>2017-12-28T00:00:00.000Z</updated>
      <id>http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/startcon-keynote-what-effective-engineer-really-means</id>
      <content type="html" xml:base="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/startcon-keynote-what-effective-engineer-really-means">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/startcon-keynote-what-effective-engineer-really-means&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/startcon.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Earlier this month, I keynoted at StartCon in Sydney, to an estimated 1,000 people on the technical track. It was the biggest and most personal talk that I&apos;ve ever given.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/startcon-keynote-what-effective-engineer-really-means&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;My Keynote Talk: What It Really Means to Be an Effective Engineer &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
      <author>
        <name>Edmond Lau</name>
      </author>
      <category term="engineering best practices" />
      <category term="leadership" />
      <summary type="html">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/startcon-keynote-what-effective-engineer-really-means&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/startcon.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Earlier this month, I keynoted at StartCon in Sydney, to an estimated 1,000 people on the technical track. It was the biggest and most personal talk that I&apos;ve ever given.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/startcon-keynote-what-effective-engineer-really-means&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;My Keynote Talk: What It Really Means to Be an Effective Engineer &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</summary>
      <media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/startcon.jpg" />
    </entry>
    <entry>
      <title>Why It’s Important to Raise the Bar for Engineering Leadership</title>
      <link href="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/raising-the-bar-for-engineering-leadership" rel="alternate" type="text/html" title="Why It&apos;s Important to Raise the Bar for Engineering Leadership" />
      <published>2017-12-22T00:00:00.000Z</published>
      <updated>2017-12-22T00:00:00.000Z</updated>
      <id>http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/raising-the-bar-for-engineering-leadership</id>
      <content type="html" xml:base="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/raising-the-bar-for-engineering-leadership">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/raising-the-bar-for-engineering-leadership&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/leadership-workshop.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Last week, I co-led back-to-back workshops on engineering leadership.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/raising-the-bar-for-engineering-leadership&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;Why It’s Important to Raise the Bar for Engineering Leadership &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
      <author>
        <name>Edmond Lau</name>
      </author>
      <category term="leadership" />
      <category term="workshops" />
      <summary type="html">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/raising-the-bar-for-engineering-leadership&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/leadership-workshop.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Last week, I co-led back-to-back workshops on engineering leadership.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/raising-the-bar-for-engineering-leadership&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;Why It’s Important to Raise the Bar for Engineering Leadership &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</summary>
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    </entry>
    <entry>
      <title>Share Powerful Stories to Shift the Culture Around You</title>
      <link href="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/share-powerful-stories-to-shift-the-culture" rel="alternate" type="text/html" title="Share Powerful Stories to Shift the Culture Around You" />
      <published>2017-11-08T00:00:00.000Z</published>
      <updated>2017-11-08T00:00:00.000Z</updated>
      <id>http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/share-powerful-stories-to-shift-the-culture</id>
      <content type="html" xml:base="http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/share-powerful-stories-to-shift-the-culture">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/share-powerful-stories-to-shift-the-culture&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/edmond-3-year.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;A few months ago, I passed my three-year anniversary of working at Quip. It&apos;s the longest I&apos;ve worked at any company, and my experience here has also differed significantly from other startups I&apos;ve worked at.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/share-powerful-stories-to-shift-the-culture&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;Share Powerful Stories to Shift the Culture Around You &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content>
      <author>
        <name>Edmond Lau</name>
      </author>
      <category term="personal growth" />
      <category term="engineering culture" />
      <category term="quip" />
      <category term="startups" />
      <summary type="html">&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/share-powerful-stories-to-shift-the-culture&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/edmond-3-year.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;A few months ago, I passed my three-year anniversary of working at Quip. It&apos;s the longest I&apos;ve worked at any company, and my experience here has also differed significantly from other startups I&apos;ve worked at.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.effectiveengineer.com/blog/share-powerful-stories-to-shift-the-culture&quot;&gt;Continue reading &quot;Share Powerful Stories to Shift the Culture Around You &amp;raquo;&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</summary>
      <media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://effectiveengineer.com/images/posts/edmond-3-year.jpg" />
    </entry>
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